The 12 laws of DEEP transformation

1. Move in silence
2.High income skills
3.Stay silent
4.Faith over feelings
5.Self awareness and accountability
6.Healthy Lifestyle
7.Bullet proof routine
8.Working on Communication skills
9.Your truth isn't the fact
10.Inner circle
Okay now you're not that busy to not watch the full video so I say go watch the entire video and level up in life. TML!

I quit smoking weed after smoking from the age of 12 - 27. I'm now almost 5 months off of it and I am so glad I quit!

Any Christians here listening to her videos through a biblical world view? It’s so good. God has blessed her with so much of wisdom

I’m a mental health counselor at a women’s residential substance abuse center. My clients LOVE your videos! A lot of your vids tie in the most pertinent life skills that are great for relapse prevention and building an intentional life❤

Quitting weed is a game changer..i travel to Italy for mini solo breaks...am learning piano...and so much positivity is around me........i embrace solitude......be stoic!

Moving in silence is something I definitely need to work on because when people tell me things, I am genuinely happy for them, so I expect the same when I say it. But after years of the same results of people either steal what I want to do or fail after telling them I am done. This is the year of beginning to move in silence

OMG you were a stoner? I’m quitting smoking after 20 years of it! And I would have never guessed that from watching your vids! Wow, great transformation, you a total inspo!!

I love that you shared a bit of your backstory. It makes your transformation more palpable because it shows by example that it can be achieved regardless of where you start. Thx Vikita!

Law #5: We need more people with self-awareness and accountability!! I'm seeing so many ppl who love to complain about the toxic ppl close to them, but they choose to let them in. I see it mostly with co-workers. Your videos have helped me reduce stress in dealing with all of this. I am able to look at situations more objectively and distance myself. In doing so, I have been able to increase my feminine energy and focus on myself and my needs and take accountability for myself. Thank you for all of your wisdom. It's a game changer!❤

I highkey love how you’re literally a lawyer observing the laws of the universe for us🖤

Personally I share my dreams with the right people and never keep silent. I know my mom is going to put crazy what ifs in my head and be super negative. I know many of my friends even though I love them will meet me with contempt because we don’t align creatively. That’s why I make friends with entrepreneurs who can help, contribute, and guide me. One of them took an idea I was so gung-ho about and turned it into an even better one, then hooked me up with a partner to make it happen. But if I didn’t share with the wrong people I wouldn’t have been pushed to find the right ones.

Vikita-This post is such a blessing.

I feel you on miserable isolation. I almost completely lost the ability to function due to thyroid issues until I randomly decided to try getting sober & going gluten free. Everything got better

i came across your channel less than a week ago and am beyond impressed on how much i’ve learned. I can feel my perspective being shifted and feel so much more in control in how I choose to react to any and every situation
ALSO, growing up with my mom and 3 sisters, I was so conditioned to randomly lashing out during an argument and letting my emotions just run wild, but after watching a few of your videos, I’ve implemented staying calm and not impulsively reacting to how others treat me because “the world isn’t responsible for your triggers”
THANK YOU!

Tip #1 is a gem. Literally what I’ve been going through as soon as I shared something I’m working on it would fall through. Learning to balance sharing my life without sharing work in progress goals . Only completed ones

I didn’t realize you’re a fellow Canadian 🙋🏼‍♀️
I’ve completely changed my life around too, it’s amazing what we can do.
#1 has been a mantra for me for a long time. Never tell anyone anything until it’s done and their jaws drop.

Thank you for sharing!
I had a similar situation and getting myself out of my rut and chasing my dreams (in silence 😏 and alone)
Can’t wait to come back and tell you about my accomplishments 🧿 Thank you Beautiful!

Vickita, thank you for being so vulnerable in this video. You have helped me a lot in improving my life and becoming more feminine. Your insights on gratitude have inspired me to add more positivity and hope to my life. Watching you has given me the strength to face my own challenges.
Your honesty and courage have shown me the importance of being true to myself. You’ve taught me how to embrace my femininity with confidence and grace. I’m now more hopeful and motivated to live my best life. Thank you for being a source of hope and inspiration for me. I’m excited to use your advice and see how it transforms my life.💌

Point 1 is so true. I used to tell my cousin, my only friend my dreams and visions. One day on the phone, after I'd told her what I wanted to do, she started laughing and saying it's great that I'm such a dreamer. I'm now midway through a business degree to take a step towards my dream. Only my husband knows I'm doing it. It feels so powerful being able to control my vision without outside negativity. I can't wait to casually drop it into conversation that I finally got my degree. It's a shame, but I really don't trust people as they laugh or try drag you down.

Dude omg this video is all I needed to quit weed. Fr. Knowing you did it makes me know there’s a way. I didn’t know we started from the same place. You’re my #1 role model on this platform and have been for a while and I never knew you struggled with weed too

Fantastic video, thank you, I love the move in silence law and also staying silent and not blabbering about my dreams to everybody, because even my family is so negative and anytime I have a dream they always find a way to run it into the ground. It is what it is, I love them but I don't share my plans with them :)

Wow this is absolutely AMAZING. THANKYOU for being vulnerable… I am LITERALLY in the same position as you were. First two minutes of this video you talk about how you’ve been sick for the past year, dedicated 5 years to pursue law, was a stoner, and now dedicating time to your business. that’s literally ME right now. Thankyou. I feel blessed there to be someone who understands🙏 wow God is Great!!!

Accountability is key. Taking full responsibility for MY life, for MY situation completely changed my life. Remember all, you can't control anyone else's actions. The only one you have full control of is YOURSELF. Use that power.

LOVE the stuff about moving in silence. I talk way too much and people are always shutting down my delusions, so that is such good advice. It's so tempting to want to share, but it's true that its much better to show not tell!
It is inspiring that you built a life for yourself despite your family's opinion. I'm half Indian, so I get pressure from that side of my family about work & career stuff. Like, damn, let me dream in peace....

My truth isn’t fact , the realest thing I needed to hear today 💯

Law no. 12 is so true. I was so confident in my looks and weight and absolutely loved myself until age 10 or 11. That’s when people started calling themselves ugly and fat, and I did that because I thought that if I said I liked myself, people would think that I was full of myself. I eventually started to believe that I was ugly and fat. I would have never had self esteem problems if it weren’t for society making it the norm.

You go girl! ❤

GIRL. seeing how you were literally touches my soul every time cus im just like so freaking proud of you and it gives me hope and belief in myself and i love and appreciate you for sharing your testimony

I faced a lot of negativity and evil eye yes its real don't share anything with anyone otherwise your life will not work out.

Everyone should read the forbidden book Women’s Magic Truths. It explores these subjects in depth and has made a huge impact on my life.

I see so much of myself in you!! I’m not indian, but also a brown dominican girl, raised in Italy, where I always felt ‘different’ and out of place. I’m also a Taurus (may 1st) and also 27! I also was addicted to weed for quite a while and it left me in a huge depression after it killed all my dopamine and productivity. Since the first the first time I saw one of your videos I felt immediately pulled towards you and your energy; and the more you share about your life and the more I see , the more I feel connected to you in a spiritual way ♥️ Thank you for being such an inspiration for all women and for impacting my life the way you are doing.

Thank you for being so candid about substance abuse. It needs more discussion because it is a unique obstacle that makes motivation to act and change harder. But when you do get out it’s incredible. ❤

vikita, you seriously are one of the best people i have come across. everytime i feel any less confident or lost, you are my knight in the shining armour. sending you lots of love and support. thank you 💗

Girl I’m so sorry you went through that, I can 1000% relate as I’ve gone through the same exact thing with long covid…it changes you

Whoa! Thnx for being so vulnerable and honest about your journey ❤

This video is everything. As a west indian woman making moves in silence is tough-but its true, our parents & culture can be very negative & dream crushers. Currently in the process of transformation every area of my life. Thanks for this motivation.

I HAD to go on my phone so I can leave you a comment! The fear of being seen video is really resonating with me and I am going to try watch your videos, you're incredibly succinct and to the point and clear , I was kinda not judging but pooh poohing(!) you because you are younger than I am, but, lady!, you're speaking so much truth in a frank open way, I'm so impressed!!! I'm just tongue tied and can't get myself heard, it's killing me, I look forward to watching your videos, go on!!! ❤❤❤

16:34 Could you make a video on these? I would love to get some ideas from you!

You are killing it girl! I'm so proud of you.

i had a similar experience after graduation, couldn t believe my friends moved on so easily without me

You are such an inspiration ❤❤❤

I'm ready to be dsicplined again, not just motivated and aesthetically pleasing.

Wow it is WILD how directly you spoke to me in this video. Thank YOU. I am so so grateful for your revelations and knowledge. I’ve been back at my parents for 6 months and been dealing with gut health/auto immune issues and also working really hard at my business but not getting as much traction as I require. I was SHOCKED when you said the line about telling your mum about a really good sales call and then suddenly the client is no longer on board, that has happened to me so many times over the last few months after I tell my parents an update, and it’s been really disheartening. So I truly deeply appreciate your advice of moving in silence. Also your line about “dad I’m moving to England” SO HELPFUL. The friendship group is a big one for me, there are a couple of people who I need to distance myself from and attract new friends to be uplifted with and enjoy time with. Thank YOU I will be revisiting this video to keep these rules fresh and actively practicing them daily. Cheers.

Awww…Vickita looooveed that video today sooo much ❤❤❤ thank you sooo much for letting us (again) be part of your journey. All the points were so wonderful and wonderful explained. Also made me soo happy for you (yes, RUclips makes it possible ;)), but yes, absolutely celebrated your success along with you telling us and all the good things to come and which are in the making 😊 lovely greetings from Germany

You’re amazing ❤

Hey, thank you for this content. I can relate to a lot of your story. Indian, chronic illness and couldn’t get out of bed for months, parents confused and concerned by the turn my life has taken. My life now is nothing like it was when I started my transformational journey. There are key things I am missing based on your laws so thank you for sharing this. Rooting for you.

Inspiring ❤

I loved this video so much!!!! This was GOLD!!!!

I spent years in bed, got help, had hope and now It still takes a lot of encouragement and discipline to get out of bed and still “getting help” …..I don’t know maybe I’m just like this 😢

I am invested in this video.there is this sound that happens before 7:32 and I need answers lol
Sounds like breathing or a door. But I thought for sure a breath 😅

“Indian parents” was so loaded 😭😂 you are crystal clear ✨

You are like phoenix that rose up from ashes❤

The timing of this video appearing in my life is perfect, like OMG

This is powerful, young one! Never thought about the negative energy that comes from these "WOLVES IN SHEEPS CLOTHING" when you tell them what you're working on. An Energy... you hit the nail on the head with that one. I started practicing quiet action in high school but I never knew why. Move in silence and talk about it later.. Good luck in all your endeavors, Sis!

I'm A young woman living in south africa 🇿🇦 I love victita, I watch your videos, they helping me a lot.you are such a blessing ❤️

Thank you, young sensei. It was hard for me to listen at first because of my life circumstances and comparing. But I am so ready for change and feel it deeply. It is time.

I like your content, the best thing is my mom and grandma actually taught me these things as a litte girl but i guess I forgot some of them as an adult and these videos are like a reminder. It´s the first time one self help+motivation channel actually makes me think it´s possible.

Top tier advice!! We have to wear the karma we choose, and that’s why self awareness is so important.
Everything we say, Everything we do, our reactions to every situation are often automatic from a place of wounding. When we slow down and really think ahead about how our choices and actions have a huge long term impact on our lives and others it’s a game Changer, No weapon against you can prosper!
I’m 46 and it’s taken me years to grasp this kind of wisdom! Thank you 🙏 💐☺️

Thanks for the important reminders!

You bodied this!! Thank you! 🙌🏾❤️

I relate to you so much! I’m on my journey as well, and have a strong personality that I’m working on balancing and softening. I’m Latin so also relate to the white standard and friends.

Thank you for this video!!
I finished university literally a week ago and last few months I was DREAMING about things I will do when I’ll be free, but all I feel now is.. I feel nothing. It’s summer, super short and most pleasant season of the year in my country, I’m 23 yo and everything seems fine in my life, but I really feel like a big heavy cold grey grumpy stone that is lying on its place and that’s all 😢
And about communication: maybe I’m not right but your situation seems better to me, because I can’t communicate at all.. I always unsure about everything and prefer keep silent. My uni teacher told me that I’m smart but too slow and need more confidence. I do understand it but can’t do anything! I do a really big job, get results but return to a suuuuper low position every time and it makes me disappointed more and more.. and when I’m around people who are loud and confident I can’t talk at all, every word is a huge weight :.( I don’t complex about my appearance a lot, more about my soul and everything that is inside of me.. it’s harder to fix!

Such a powerful and insightful video. Thank you for sharing ❤

Plz make a detailed video on meditation how to meditate and stuff

As a Jamaican 🇯🇲 here, i am in full agreement with you...I love thjs content, absolutely beautiful.

Congratulations vickita you really inspiring us to take actions. Most informative video so far.

Number 1 is my biggest hurdle. I’ll even tell complete strangers my dreams and plans, and then either it’ll take me a year to take action on it, or those plans will just fizzle out 🤦🏻‍♀️

Very wise, you look wise beyond your dreams really great insight. Your comment waiting for other people to take accountability is just prolonging going after your dreams is so true a penny really dropped me. Lots of other really helpful tips but that just woke something up on me thank you and may you keep being blessed abundantly

I too am trying to get out of depression. Thank you for your video 💕

THANK YOU! Once again this is helping me deeply. You're so inspiring!

Vickita could you please make a video on how to make friends, maybe that sounds stupid lol but after making some bigger changes in my life I don't know quite well where to start looking for the better people or how to approach them and I don't want to fall into old patterns or waste my time with people that are not on my same level. Since you're starting on this journey too your advice would be sooo helpful! ❤

Make a video on inner child deep past traumas healing

Do you have a video showing how to create bulletproof routines?

I would love to know your morning and evening routines. Please make a video!

This video is golden!!

Girl I love this video. So inspiring ❤

Wow this is so relatable, going through this now. The illness life is changing started a business and it’s like crickets right now. Very inspiring. Thank you and Congratulations1

About not sharing though… 😢 it is true and I can’t do it 🥺🥺🥺🥺

I believe in this but number 1 is all about your mindset people monitor you everyday if you think that if you tell someone a dream & it won't flourish if they're jealous youre simply feeding that energy.. it all depends on your mindset if you fully believe no matter who i tell my dreams to your dreams will be accomplished & you put energy towards that you will succeed.

This video was so inspiring. I know next to nothing about business/side hustles and am your typical brown girl in med school LOL, but I learned a lot from this video and am considering ways that I can expand on my skills and income beyond just my profession. Thanks for sharing your wisdom ❤

Hi Vickita, content request, how about what a high value woman's social media account should look like? What to post and what to avoid and all to be elegant and classy?

I (half Indian, myself) have been recovering from a chronic illness as well. I am doing much better than I was at the beginning of my health crisis.I have lost so many friends, which has been hard because I saw for a fact how little they cared about me, but now that I'm doing good enough to go out some, I am optimistic about finding the right people for my life who are aligned with this new, better version of me with no people-pleaser tendencies and better boundaries. It's beautiful to see that you have recovered & are living a life you love. This video made my day, because I am happy for you and I relate so deeply to it

I spent years in bed…got help, had hope and….still can’t get out of bed without a lot of encouragement and discipline. I don’t know maybe I’m just like this ?

I appreciate your content girlie 😘

Girl u scaring me cause why I’m literally in a situation like this omg omg I can’t right now I’m seriously about to cry

THE BEST VIDEO !!!... Shows the level of self reflection, warmth and openness, the precision in sequencing the points and the accuracy in video compilation/editing to bring about this beauty!.. Love from India 🇮🇳. However, I would politely suggest to take the trouble to re-take the video if found that the aesthetic part is a bit off !!.

Tysm! I love you! God bless you! 💖

Thank you for all your content Vickita, it's very helpful and welcome to England. 🤗

2:10 girl that pic looks like that messy headed bratz doll!! lol I'm glad you're in a better place now though, congratulations!!

One of your best videos yet! Loved it 👏🏼

Loved this episode, shared with friends/fam.
Was excited when you mentioned Abraham. I listen to those 15 mins every morning. The way your break it down was so helpful too.
I live in PR as well. I hope you and your Hispanic wife love it. Kinda too hot lately so stay hydrated!
Ty for your podcasts. ❤

I M so honored to have a person like you on yourube to learn from girl!!! Thank you❣️👏🏽👌🏽✨️💋🙏🏼💖💪🏽

So much good advice here🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️❤

So honest and relatable video❤ I think best one so far. Thank you🙏

You are one in a million- I so appreciate you and the content you share. Thank you!!

Please make a video to deal with childhood trauma

Wow, law 4 and how you put it is sooo good!! Thank you, lots

sundays but anytime after 11, for church goers perhaps 😭❤️

wow I was starting to watch your channel and I have first of all the same chaotic attachment style you had and I have a very bad health condition where doctors don't want to help. feels like it's something most people don't have to deal with so I was surprised to hear that you had this fight too. I don't think I will have a better health at some point but I need to start living again nevertheless.

Im feeling better just viewing this video. Never happenned to me. Thanks you a lot. ❤