Our Hotwives

I wonder how many cuckold/hotwife relationships have absolutely nothing to do with dick size.

A bit of backstory: I blame my interest in cuckolding on my dad's penthouse letters mags growing up that always had cuckolding in them as well as NTR/netorare hentai as well as some of the girls I talked to on Myspace at aroun 19-21 that told me over and over that they didn't want a boyfriend only to end up with someone else (meaning they just didn't want me) and then teased me about it and what I'd do to have them. To this day being cuckolded just seems the most realistic form of relationship I'd end up in because at 39 I've still never even been out on a date or had sex at all.

That said, I'm not exactly small and I wonder how many women cheat/hook up with other guys just because they like the thrill of someone new and seeing how they fuck differently. It reminds me of the saying "it's not the size of the ship but the motion of the ocean" and I flip that around as "if you're hung but can't fuck properly, you still suck." After all, I've seen homemade porn where the woman is going on and on about his "big black cock" only for the guy to be like 5 inches so it can't be all about size right?

So yeah, how much does it have to do with size and how much of it has to do with how the guy works it/treats you?

For my wife it’s nothing to do with size, she says she’s more interested her connection with the guy and him as a person, so as long as his cock isn’t too big that it’s uncomfortable/hurts or too small that she can’t feel it or it keeps slipping out then she’s happy. From the stats I’ve seen I’m at the upper end of average and she has no complaints there.

She can’t specifically say why she likes it other than she likes sex and if she likes the man can see no reason not to have sex with him as she has my approval and knows it turns me on. She also says it’s exciting being naughty as a married woman.

Cock size seems to have more of an effect on men than it does on women. Women aren't usually aware of how good it can feel, have had bad experiences with big cocks or worry/assume it would hurt so it's not something they usually seek out although I think they try to avoid anything too small.

I think there's many driving forces towards cuckolding, cock size is just one of them.

My cocksize is 4 inches. My wife was big boned to begin with and had 3 large babies. The first time I thought it would be tight, but our first fuck was sloppy. I would always ask if I was in and she would say yes a little ways. After babies she would ask if I was inside, and I would say can;t you feel it? She would always say no, there is nothing there. On her first hotwife experience we tried for the biggest guy, a full 12 inch guy with 8 inch girth. She had the time of her life, just like having a live baby in her pussy.

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annsman wrote: ↑

Thu Oct 31, 2024 8:39 am

For my wife it’s nothing to do with size, she says she’s more interested her connection with the guy and him as a person, so as long as his cock isn’t too big that it’s uncomfortable/hurts or too small that she can’t feel it or it keeps slipping out then she’s happy. From the stats I’ve seen I’m at the upper end of average and she has no complaints there.

She can’t specifically say why she likes it other than she likes sex and if she likes the man can see no reason not to have sex with him as she has my approval and knows it turns me on. She also says it’s exciting being naughty as a married woman.

I should just borrow your words, they apply to Farmgirl and myself just as well.

Its not.. but there is definately an appeal for something bigger.
I find long and thick manly and intimidating as opposed to a feminine short slim thing. I would still have sex with both.. just the dynamic would be different.

jratt85 wrote: ↑

Thu Oct 31, 2024 4:00 am

I wonder how many cuckold/hotwife relationships have absolutely nothing to do with dick size.

A bit of backstory: I blame my interest in cuckolding on my dad's penthouse letters mags growing up that always had cuckolding in them as well as NTR/netorare hentai as well as some of the girls I talked to on Myspace at aroun 19-21 that told me over and over that they didn't want a boyfriend only to end up with someone else (meaning they just didn't want me) and then teased me about it and what I'd do to have them. To this day being cuckolded just seems the most realistic form of relationship I'd end up in because at 39 I've still never even been out on a date or had sex at all.

That said, I'm not exactly small and I wonder how many women cheat/hook up with other guys just because they like the thrill of someone new and seeing how they fuck differently. It reminds me of the saying "it's not the size of the ship but the motion of the ocean" and I flip that around as "if you're hung but can't fuck properly, you still suck." After all, I've seen homemade porn where the woman is going on and on about his "big black cock" only for the guy to be like 5 inches so it can't be all about size right?

So yeah, how much does it have to do with size and how much of it has to do with how the guy works it/treats you?

It's a lot of things. Variety is key. My ex-wife liked to be with a doctor, a jazz musician, a guy with washboard abs, a friend who just lost weight and looked great, a professor that taught her, a friend with an outrageously good-looking face, there's just a lot of fantasies she had lived them out. Only the jazz musician was hung like a horse, the rest of them were either average, above average, some were even small. She didn't want a sex life like mine was, one person is monotonous.

Even the well-hung jazz musician could only offer a form of variety. He was so big he could only fuck her slowly and gently, anything more than that and it would hurt. Some times my wife likes to be fucked hard and fast. Don't get me wrong, her knees would get weak when she found out he was coming to town she enjoyed it so much, she just liked variety. Other times she wanted an intellectual connection, other times she wanted a doctor, who has to maintain strict professionalism around nudity to give into temptation thanks to her naked body, other times she wanted to straddle wash board abs, there are different sexual experiences and size only offers the intensity of so many nerves being stimulated in the vagina at once, the other other experiences she wanted. I'm proud to say my ego didn't get in the way of her experiencing that.

thanks for the replies, I got WAY more replies here than on reddit. I guess it pretty much fits with what I figured, you just can't ignore the trope of so many people seeking the mythical "big black cock" it seems like it's all anybody talks about these days that you have to wonder, but then as I said, if it truly was just about size some woman would've tried hooking up with me by now. I heard pretty much nightly when I worked at Walmart that so many people see a guy that's 6'6+ and instantly their only thought is some version of "you must be hung like a horse!" and while I am large, it takes a LOT of effort for me to relax enough to get turned on enough to actually show it.. at least alone.

As I told this woman from the Netherlands I'm talking to on reddit, I know I'll never have the swagger that black dudes have and I'll never be able to pound like them.. my back and hips are just too fucked up for that and my mind is too... inexperienced and easily overwhelmed.

I'm still not sure of anything really, but I definitely feel like being cuckolded at least would have to be better than being alone forever.

While size can a factor, I can honestly say I know other cucks that are 8-9 inch and thick and are still cucks. So I would say it's not always a size thing. For us it was a medical thing, size became a factor but mainly since I have severe ED and really after 20 years it is basically nothing.

Wannabe here. Would be size for me I think, but I think if it actually happened size wouldn’t actually matter. My wife is super into fucking huge dildos though, and the fantasy/roleplay is about how much better the bigger dick is than me, although I would say I am probably average, however I can’t compete with her massive 12 inch dildo she prefers.

For my wife, who took 10 years to take the plunge, indicated she wanted a connection with someone else before sleeping with someone. To her, she could not bring herself to partake in random hookups. Eventually, she met a guy that checked all the boxes. He's handsome, ripped, intelligent, hardworking, honest and a total gentleman. Prior to any sex, they had a few dates to "get to know each other" and it eventually led to a make out session in his car. She was feeling his crotch and found out he has huge (9"...she measured it after a few months lol) dick. She has been seeing him once a month for almost two years, and they have a great FWB relationship, but she has also admitted that she really enjoys his size. So, in her words she is somewhat of a size queen, but it would not be the same if she didn't have a connection and he didn't know how to use it. BTW, I'm just over 6" and she said she enjoys my dick also. Win/Win??

My wife is a size queen. Her ex before we started dating was 10”. I seriously doubted it when she told me. However I found a video they made together. Andddd she was definitely not lieing. He was huge. I’m only 6”. We have good sex. But she has better sex with bigger members. Or maybe my motion in the ocean just isn’t as good as his. Either way our boat did not handle that sea the same way lol.

My wife has had two long-term boyfriends.

The first was about the same length as me (average, based on what I see on PornHub amateur clips), if only a little less girth. I’ve ALWAYS been told I’m a little thicker than usual, but not Coke-can thick…..just noticeably thick.

The second is smaller. I’ve not had the pleasure of watching yet, but she tells me he’s smaller, but still adequate and satisfying. She likes his style. He can keep a fast pace for a long time and really pound her, she says. It’s fantastic for her, she says. (I’d love to see it, but he’s all self-conscious about his dick size. She tells him he fucks her A LOT better than me, but he’s not convinced yet. Give him some time, I say. Once he realizes that he truly “owns” the championship and becomes comfortable in the knowledge that he fucks her better than me, her husband, he’s gonna want to show off his talent a bit. Ask any bull. It’s gotta be a good feeling to fuck a man’s wife and listen to her moan and beg for more of his cock right in front of her husband.)

So…No. It has nothing to do with size for my wife. She enjoys “style.”

Whats a normal size? Ive seen my partners penis, and its not very big. Ive seen a few other guy friends penis before when they pee. All seem pretty small. Not like the porn penises.

It’s definitely the ‘something else’. My wife has had much larger, similar and smaller in her FWBs than me and it’s never just about size or even about size at all really. When it’s just her and I, she really enjoys adding a large toy and that’s a big part of our play but when she’s with someone else, it’s not about the size at all. It’s her connection, it’s her expressing herself, it’s just about them as in the two of them.

One friend asked my wife about it all, about the why and she put it about as simply as she could…. “It’s about having the freedom to express myself sexually in whatever way I want to.” That sums it up…. She has guy friends that she expresses herself with in a physical relationship and other male friends that she doesn’t…. None of it has to do with cock sizes

parklife wrote: ↑

Sun Nov 03, 2024 5:36 am

It’s definitely the ‘something else’. My wife has had much larger, similar and smaller in her FWBs than me and it’s never just about size or even about size at all really. When it’s just her and I, she really enjoys adding a large toy and that’s a big part of our play but when she’s with someone else, it’s not about the size at all. It’s her connection, it’s her expressing herself, it’s just about them as in the two of them.

One friend asked my wife about it all, about the why and she put it about as simply as she could…. “It’s about having the freedom to express myself sexually in whatever way I want to.” That sums it up…. She has guy friends that she expresses herself with in a physical relationship and other male friends that she doesn’t…. None of it has to do with cock sizes

Ditto parklife. Marie was a HW for a few years before she was with a guy that was bigger than me. She’s had great sex with guys that average size and terrible sex with guys with large cocks. She said it’s all about the connection.

Multiple factors for us, size is a "small" part. But also just the dynamic and teasing aspects really is what gets us going

In my wife's short time being with other men, none of them have been larger or even the same size as me. And she has certainly enjoyed their cocks a lot.

L says that she enjoys performing oral sex with a smaller cock that can fit in her mouth without stretching her lips and without hitting her throat. I even saw a video with her last bull that clearly showed how much more she enjoyed giving him a bj, than me. He was probably 5.5" long and less than 5" in diameter.

Another bull fucked her for 5+ hours over 1 night and she said she loved that he was a little shorter and less girthy than me. Reasons were that she could take a pounding from him and did not get too sore until late in the session. She says that with me the pounding would have become unbearable within 30 minutes. She loved this data, came at least 6 times (her count although the short videos imply she had many more) and will be repeating next weekend.

My wife says it's all about size and stamina. She is multi-orgasmic and enjoys men who can bring her to orgasm multiple times before climaxing themselves.

For my wife it was size. She was a virgin when we married, but she grew up in farm country with lots of male neighbors and cousins and three brothers and skinny dipping in the deep part of the creek behind her house was common. So by the time she saw me naked on our anniversary she was fully aware what normal or above normal size looked like and knew I wasn't it.

My husband is bigger than average. So it really isn’t fair to compare others that are not above average to him. But I will share this bit of info, from a woman’s point of view. I cum easily. So easy that even a small member can get me off. I have had very large men, and average men. And can enjoy them both no matter the size, if they know what there doing. I have had a few that were just too big. And that’s no fun. It really depends on the woman. What does she want…tonight. Sometimes we are not looking for Mr Right. We’re looking for Mr Right Now.. I think the size thing is more important to a man then a woman.

Most of the time my ex wife went with a new lover she wasn't aware of their size until they'd started playing. She loved the thrill of going with someone different; men and women and enjoyed the buzz she got from being close to them.
She felt proud when they'd show their interest by coming on to her, especially if they were married and she would enjoy the different techniques each person would use.
She's switched from 9 inches to 5 without any complaints and used to enjoy sucking her nephew's thick 6 inches in between times and looked forward to the day she would fuck him. His is her all time favourite!
Most of her vibrators were quite big however, but she'd say she enjoyed them because she could control how they went in her. Although I wasn't usually allowed to ask her about her times with another woman, she did admit to being fucked with a large strap on by a woman we were both seeing, who was more gentle with it than most larger men had been with her. Not that she minded if she was with a larger man that was more forceful, she'd just feel a bit sore after a while.

It’s certainly the size for my wife. While she loves variety, she will not invest the time and energy to have an extramarital relationship with a man anymore unless the man is well-endowed, at least 7 inches. She must still feel some sort of connection with the man outside of the bedroom, but her PIV interest is essentially only in big cocks.

When we started the lifestyle, she enjoyed playing with men who were average or even a bit smaller. We would have satisfying PIV sex and I’m under 4 1/2 inches. Once she started to experience whole body orgasms from deep penetration, she just figured out that for PIV sex, size was a huge priority.

We stopped having piv sex almost a year ago. She admitted last week that when she thinks of having that type,of sex, she thinks about big cocks.

So, we started with broader range of guys below the belt,but over time she has discovered a type of sex that means a great deal to her. I don’t want her to setttle for anything less,

For my wife it's several things. In no particular order, she likes being attractive to other men. She also likes to play the bad girl. Letting your husband and others watch you fucking certainly let's her do that.

She also likes variety. The way she put it to me is "I'm not looking for bigger or better, I'm looking for more and variety." Size has never been an issue for her. She likes thicker when she finds it but she cums easily so most cocks are satisfying for her. She doesn't like them too big. She finds the larger ones painful and won't do a guy if he's too big.